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The ‘False Memory / Recovered Memory’ Debate by Lorraine Jaksic

The recent advent of the non-clinical term, ‘False Memory Syndrome’, has created a hotbed of controversy with regard to our understanding of how adult memory behaves when there has been childhood sexual abuse or other intrusive traumas in a person’s life ‘False Memory Syndrome’ is a non-clinical, non-scientific phrase, not recognized by any formal medical associa-tion, coined by the False Memory Syndrome Foundation (Brown, Scheflin & Hammond, 1998). In February 1992, this foundation was officially formed as a non-profit organization to address “accusations of childhood sexual abuse by adult survivors based upon decade-delayed memories that are created by misguided or unconscionable therapy” (Vella, l992) The Foundation argues that the phenomenon of flashbacks, a common form of memory recovery by adult survivors, is virtually impossible (Doe/Freyd, 1991; Loftus, 1993; Loftus, Polonsky and Fullilove, 1994). The aforementioned researchers suggest that the resultant recovered memory, surrounding childhood sexual abuse which never happened, represents a false truth constructed by the survivors but induced by therapists.

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How to move on after a break up by Shannon Christie

via CanadianLiving.com

No one enters a new relationship thinking it will end. However, if the worst-case scenario comes true and you find yourself single again, having a post-break up action plan can shave several weeks off of the amount of time you spend recovering from the emotional upset.

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5 ways to improve communication in your marriage by Shannon Christie

via CanadianLiving.com

Better, more effective communication in your marriage involves more than just talking. By being honest, making time for fun, eliminating one-upmanship and avoiding arguing on autopilot, you’ll find yourself carving out new, more productive communication patterns with your spouse. Lorraine Jaksic, a registered marriage and family therapist and co-owner of Abundant Living Counselling Group in Ottawa, shares some ways to improve communication in your marriage and start seeing positive results for yourself.

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